Approaching someone you’re attracted to can be somewhat intimidating, because of different reasons- reasons like most guys are just naturally comfortable in their own skin, fear of rejection or being given cold shoulders, social anxiety, low self esteem and others.
When it comes to how to approach a female, everyone is different, so there are no real hard and fast rules (apart from a few obvious ones, like backing off if she’s not interested). However, here are a few general guidelines for how to approach a woman for the first time, in a way that’s respectful, while still making your interest obvious.
Things to pay attention to before you approach a woman
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of how to approach a woman, it’s worth considering whether she’s actually interested. Science shows that men tend to overestimate women’s interest in them1, while the joke about “useless lesbians” exists for a reason. So how do you know whether it’s a good idea to approach a woman? Look for signs that she’s interested in you first. Here are a few things to watch out for:
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Her body language makes her interest obvious
Wondering whether she likes you, too? Check out her body language. Research shows that when we like someone, our bodies make it obvious. What are some of the signs you should look out for? If her body language is open and welcoming, if she’s making plenty of eye contact with you, if she’s touching you either consciously or unconsciously – a hand on your arm, brushing against you as she goes past – then it’s a pretty good sign she’s interested. If she gets flustered or nervous around you, or she blushes when you talk to her, that’s another indication she might return your feelings. Often, physical cues are more revealing than what people actually say, so pay close attention!
